After 20+ years in our current house, we have accrued a huge amount of stuff, and have been decluttering and downsizing progressively over a couple of years. Added to 20 years accumulation of stuff, two parental bereavements that came with an inheritance of stuff, and another parent who downsized in part by moving stuff from his house to ours, and you have a recipe for an episode of Hoarders.
We have learnt a few things along the way. Here's a few of the things we have leant.
There are three main options for downsizing: dumping, donating and divesting.
Dumping
This is easy, but not very environmentally friendly. Plus it feels really bad to see good stuff go to hard waste. Inevitably though, some stuff will need to be dumped.Our council, City of Charles Sturt, offers two free hard waste collections each year. These need to be booked in advance, and there are rules about how much in advance you can put your gear on the nature strip. These rules do not appear to be strictly enforced though, and most of our last hard waste collection was pillaged by neighbours before the council came. One neighbour was so happy with the gear that they scavenged from our stack that they brought us some homemade cake as a thank you. I understand (I think) why councils no longer have common hard waste collection weekends, but gee I miss the camaraderie these brought.
The City of Charles Sturt also runs the Beverley Recycling and Waste Centre. They take e-waste in smallish quantities for no charge. Got old phones, answering machines, modems, boom boxes and radio controlled Daleks that no longer work? Anything that plugs in or has a battery counts as e-waste and can be recycled.
Over 20+ years, we accumulated a lot of paperwork with personal details than cannot be dumped through normal means. I had tax records going back to last century - well beyond the seven years that you are required to keep. For this, we got a big bin from Shred-X. For a fixed fee, you keep the bin for four weeks, fill it up, then they collect the bin and dispose of the contents securely. I had an old computer that had a hard disk fail, in such a way that I could not get rid of any personal information. I had that computer sitting in a box under my desk for a few years, until eventually asking Shred-X to dispose of it securely.
Finally, small amounts of stuff can be disposed of weekly / fortnightly in the regular garbage collection.
Donating
We have weeded out a significant volume of kitchen goods, bed linens and towels. Somewhere along the way, we collected dozens of ceramic mugs, none of which we use. Donating is the 'feel-good' option, but takes quite a bit of work to do in a responsible way. Charities are understandably reasonably picky about the donations they will accept, and the volumes of donations they will accept. We have spread donations to charities across three organisations:- Vinnies on Semaphore Road for bed linen as they have large bins outside when their shop is open.
- The Animal Welfare League SA operates op-shops in Adelaide and has a sorting centre at Gillman. They accept a wide variety of goods.
- Second Chances SA is a charity that supports people in prison, their children and families. They operate an op-shop at Sturt that seems to always be busy when we have dropped off donations, and a second-hand furniture shop at Richmond that both sells furniture and provides furniture assistance packages to folks in need. They will collect furniture donations.
My partner has donated DVDs to her hairdresser. He owns a holiday rental property that he stocks with DVDs, and in return, he has provided a couple of free haircuts. The bartering economy is alive and well.
Divesting
By divesting, I mean selling. (I wanted to keep the alliterative theme going, and divesting was the closest term I could find.) There appear to be three primary platforms for selling items - eBay, Gumtree and Facebook Marketplace. We have used eBay and Facebook Marketplace.
eBay is a 'full service' selling platform - it has an integrated payments portal, plus postage options and reasonably sophisticated messaging. The user-interface is starting to look a bit old fashioned, but it does the job reasonably efficiently. Facebook Marketplace is a 'bare bones' selling platform - there is no payments platform and the integrated messaging is tricky to manage for multiple items. Facebook Marketplace assumes your buyers will be local and sales will be made face-to-face with exchange of cash. Neither charge you to list items for sale, but eBay takes a percentage of the sale price.
I am a long-time eBay user and have only just started to experiment with Facebook Marketplace. However, bigger items that were not selling on eBay, sold on Facebook Marketplace, e.g. bookcases. Items moved quickly after being listed, which was complicated by the bare bones integrated messaging and listing too many items at once. I likened Facebook Marketplace to a pool of piranhas - lots of activity shortly after a new item dropped into the pool.
We had some interesting experiences with Facebook Marketplace. One buyer wanted to buy items in our shed that were not for sale. Maybe she mistook our shed for a Bunnings outlet? Apart from that, buyers were well-behaved, and if you can be flexible on the price you are willing to accept, Facebook Marketplace enables a seller to get rid of stuff quickly, for a cash in hand. The cash economy is alive and well.
Summary
Downsizing takes time. Do a little bit often and celebrate the small achievements.
Postscript
Decluttering and downsizing is an opportunity to buy new / vintage furniture. Thank you @retroroomadelaide for a beautiful #Noblett Naples table and chairs.